Can someone please tell me how to deal with supposed Friends who say stuff about Michael Jackson to te when they should know da now that he is your life, and te have nowhere else to hang? (BTW I'm not an aggressive person)
Thanks so much for all the help te guys. I realise now who my true Friends are. That is te guys. I decided to leave the people saying stuff about MJ after talking to them about it in vain and have found a great group of Friends who Amore me for me. Rhanks again
If they are meant to be Friends of yours then they wouldn't be doing this. I suggest te start off da ignoring them. If they say bad things to your face just roll your eyes and walk away o something like that. A lot of haters will stop if they see it doesn't bother you. However if your "friends" don't stop then stand up for yourself. te don't have to be aggressive about it. Just say that if te are really my friend then te wouldn't be recitazione like this. o just feel free to tell your parents o an adult te know. Some people feep childish doing so but its worth a try. I hope this helps. :-)
posted più di un anno fa
Thank te for your advice, I really appreciate it and I'll try not to take things they say to cuore cause I tend to do that
I have the same problem as te do.None of my Friends is an MJ fan and worse:sometimes they make jokes about his nose o his dance moves and that bothers me a lot!And I feel so lonely when I hear those things because there's no one to help me to stop it!But,usually when I say :"Stop!"they stop because they're my Friends and they don't wanna hurt me!I have to admit that there are many people who hate Michael o simply don't like him but that doesn't means that they can't be my friends,if they want!Because,everybody has the right to have an opinion!So,if te consider that they are your friends,tell them to stop and if they do,then forgive them and keep them close!You must leave behind the past mistakes if someone says he's sorry...That's one of the things that Michael taught me!
posted più di un anno fa
Yea they do say stuff like that to me and I tell them to stop but they just stop for a few days and do it again. thank te for your help.
Tell them if they are your friends, they would respect that te admire Michael. When they say whatever they say about him, just ignore it. That's what I do when someone disrespects someone I like. But if it doesn't work for you, just stand up for Michael. Tell them that Michael means a lot to you, and if they don't respect that, say te need actual Friends who will understand.
posted più di un anno fa
Thanks, I appreciate your help, and I do stand up for him but I just end up crying. I'm very sensitive when it comed to Michael
if they are really your friends,they'd stop saying that knowing how te feel about him.so just ignore them,defend him a great deal always driving your points home even with archival evidence if possible.to them,ignorance is bliss but te know whats true.so just keep the faith,dont let nobody turn te round..
posted più di un anno fa
ha OK. I Amore how te incorporated those songs into your response. MJ forever and a giorno
Just ignore them . & don't be angry at them o something , after all they are still your Friends even though te guys have diffirente opinions about MJ . It's not important what other people say o think , it's te we're talking about . and it's your life so te can Amore anyone te want to .
None of my firnds like Michael. Whenever they rag on me, I just say "Do te have ANY taste in Musica at all?!" Itys true, this is for all the Queens Of Pop =)
posted più di un anno fa
they do like his music, just not him. But thanks that made me smile
Grow some ballz and get over it i like mj but i dont know him personally to get mad at a friend who hates him unless mj is related to te get over it. do te really want to lose ur Friends over this stupid opinion?
posted più di un anno fa
I see your point, but they should still respect who she likes.
i think it depends on how bad it it, like my best Friends do it to tease me cuz they know it bugs me, but if they are doing it to piss u off they shouldn't be your friends, and if te ask them to quit nicely and they don't they arnt your true friends.
posted più di un anno fa
thank te so much. I really do feel that the people on fanpop are my only Friends sometimes. I Amore the picture BTW
i just ignore them. I dont know how many people i know that hate michael. I'll get mad at first but i eventually get over it. If te have to if they keep doing it bring up the point and say "Do te see me judging who te like?" and if they say something smart just dont talk to them anymore. I understand everyone has an opinion, but still your Friends should mostra some respect, i dont care who te are te should never make fun of someone espeacially when they are dead. If they dont listen dont talk to them until they apologize. I hope this helps.... :)
