ciao umm i need some consigli

my friend's parents got a divorce and her dad a nd siblings are blaming it on her and making her take all the responsibility for everything and shes been like a sister to me and her family has been like my family ever since i can remember but her mom filed a divorce because her dad was abusing her and shes been gettin a lot of shit and we sat at the tavolo at lunch for school and she pushed her tray away and put her head down and everyone was asking her wat waz wrong but she wouldnt answer so everyone started yellin at her and then stoped talkin to her so she went to the bathroom and i followed her cuz i knew she would tell me i found her sitting on the ground da the sink balling her eyes out and when i came in she stood up and my cuore completly sank wen she told me she had been wanting to kill herself for the past week there was some other stuff but i dont wanna get into it but she didnt want me to get our counseler cuz she pushes too much i just need some help makin sure i can prevent anything dat could really hurt her thanks