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BabyBlud said:
I'm bi-sexual and i don't find this domanda offensive at all. It's a genuine domanda and obviously this person wanted to be educated on how others may have felt. No, i wouldn't fall out with a friend just because they were bi, gay, transexual o anything. That who they want to be, then let them. But if you're having problems with a friend te think/or know is bi and te feel a little uncomfortable about it, i would invite this friend round for a chat and explain how te feel. Just because you're a little 'grossed out' doesn't mean te still can't be friends. One of my Friends has been brought up in a very strict enviroment, homoesxuality of any kind is forbidden, so when he found out i was bi, understandably he freaked but he was able to talk to me. Ask me domande on what i did, what made me feel this way, what had i done in the past etc Your friend may not be as open as i am, but it helped my friend understand a little more. We came to a compromise. I wouldn't flaunt my sexuality in front of him like i do other friends, for example rating girls we see in the strada, via for fun (shallow i know but it is fun XD), and he wouldn't try to turn me staigth o tell me why being this way was wrong. We are still good friends, so maybe this will work for te too?
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