ciao anyone know how to get over a devastating break up?

My boyfriend dumped me in public. I'm serious. He just called my friend and yelled out "hey, does she know I just broke up with her?"

I feel devastated! I mean I cried through most of the day. Any suggestions?
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worst part is, he has a crush on my frenemy, who's currently dating his best friend! He says he's gonna try to get her to data him and stuff... it kills me!
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NinaDobrev13 said:
Firstly, im sorry!

And secondly, listen to Taylor Swift?
The best ones are:
~Cold As You
~Dear John
~Forever & Always
~Haunted
~If This Was A Movie
~Last Kiss
~A Perfectly Good Heart
~Picture To Burn
~Should've detto No
~The Story Of Us
~Tell Me Why
~The Way I Loved You
~White Horse
~You're Not Sorry
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snowwhitesilver said:
Go up to him, look un-affected, and then punch, punzone him in the face in front of everyone! I'm serious. Then, smile, and walk away. Hope it helps. It'd help me.
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I sorta cried my eyes out and people saw that. O_O. I managed to slap him,...
justingurl99 posted più di un anno fa
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Nice girl! You've got guts, he obviously f'd up!
snowwhitesilver posted più di un anno fa
Usui--takumi said:
Get a new BF.
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All the guys in our school are pathetic. They're all stupid and betraying like him...
justingurl99 posted più di un anno fa
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@justingurl99 Well then... Try looking somewhere else and follow your cuore :]
Usui--takumi posted più di un anno fa
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ya ...look in tution classes o it is not necessary to have a bF all the time
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jeannette27 said:
sorry to hear the news here are some suggestions.
1:cry when te feel te wanna cry(its therputic)as long as its not in front of him o his friends
2:make a lista of all his bad qualities, things te will not miss and think of that lista anytime te start thinking of him.
3:shopping helps
4:spend time with ppl who Amore and support you
5:start focusing on your self;you are single now te have that right.
6:workout its the best stress reliever and te will feel good and look good:)
7:get a hair cut o a new hairstyle o if te can color your hair this is also very theraputic
8:eat più heathier it release good vitamins in your body that make te feel good and give te energy
9:do something nice for someone else.give to a charity o something this also makes te feel good
10:smile and laugh any chance te get this also helps up your mood.
11:when te are in front of your ex act like the breakup did not affect you.there is saying called "kill em with kindness"believe me it works.
12:and last realize that te will find better Amore out there.
hope I helped:)
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Thanks for the advice! :)
justingurl99 posted più di un anno fa
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te welcome,I've been through my share of breakups I understand.also I forgot to suggest is to stay busy like read a book o organize your room this also helps
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Tdinoahiscute4 said:
Let's see, te can listen to Owl City, Taylor Swift, o The Script.
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Won't that make me even più sad?
justingurl99 posted più di un anno fa
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I guess. But it helped my friends.
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Hermione-Fan361 said:
Well, when I got dumped (on my birthday), I didn't cry even a little. This guy was using me to get to my BFF.

For you, I suggest a long nap, a good,long,hot shower, and watching annoying arancia, arancio on YouTube.
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thanks... :(
justingurl99 posted più di un anno fa
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Sure thing. Hope te feel better soon
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Sprinter23 said:
The last thing te wanna do is rebound with some other guy. That's only gonna hurt both te and him.
Let yourself hurt a little bit. It's okay. It's natural. te don't have to cry through every class, but let yourself have a little bit of grieving time in private every giorno until the pain dulls down.
Don't blame yourself. What he did was wrong and even if it was partially your fault, if he was going to treat te that way then he wasn't worth your time anyway.
Find comfort in other things to take your mind off him. Watch your preferito movies, play your preferito video games, hang out with close, reliable friends. Try not to talk about him too much. Naturally he's gonna come up, but don't dwell on him.
And if te really need to, vent on paper. This is always what works best for me. In your diary o a notebook o whatever, vent all your negative emotions so te don't have to dump them on everyone else.
You'll meet other guys and he wasn't right for you. Don't overreact over it. It's gonna hurt, but it doesn't have to kill you.
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