If I have a crush on a person. I am certainly not going to ask for permission to have a crush on them. If it happens it happens. But it doesn't mean I have act on it.
"with enough booze te can change anyones mind" lol that's like saying fucking a lesbian will turn her straight. I don't care if te were joking, that's ignorant and rude.
I personally would rather have someone I like to be "sexual," VERY sexual~ doesn't mean I want to crush someone who sleeps around ~ they can be exclusive etc. but I do not find that asexual is a turn-on o as fun o alluring because I know my feelings are sexual in nature. I am just a sexual being. (Not slutty, that is not what I am meaning. If te understand what A-sexual is then te know what the opposite is and I have tried to be A-sexual and experiment with that, just looking at people and myself as human-beings and relating as just humans, and I see nothing wrong with that. Now my sister does not like to be touched. She has sexual fantasies but doesn't like human touch 0_0 and not me, lol).