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Need Relationship consigli stat! >.<

so here's the story. I just started dating my bf he's cool and a real sweetheart...but i feel he's a bit clingy o needy. i mean we were on the phone and he was like 'What are te doing?' 'chatting' 'with other guys?!?!?' 'no' 'dont lie' 'im not' then like a few minuti fa i was like 'hey babe im tired night' and i went to bed. Then he skypes me so i answer. 'hi baby what's up?' 'i thought te were sleeping...and whats with half the cuore note?' (i had this note i put up a few months fa that read without te im half a heart...forgot to update it) 'i was...' 'dont lie to me babe.' 'im not and the note was up months ago' so i go to change it...but for some reason skype put the old one back. 'Why'd te put half a cuore up again?! are u unhappy with me?' 'no. i Amore you' then he went to bed...but would te say hes needy? and what should i do to stop him from recitazione this way?
 liakarad1 posted più di un anno fa
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Zeppie said:
te say te guys just started dating...so in my opinion, if he's recitazione like that in the very beginning...then it does come across as odd.

It depends really how he says it. He could be just teasing and playing with you, but if te feel like it's going beyond teasing, then definitely just tell him straight up that you're not comfortable with all the questions.
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posted più di un anno fa 
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thanks ^_^ and i also think he's not joking about it
liakarad1 posted più di un anno fa
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Then definitely tell him you're not comfortable with it. If he doesn't change his attitude then he's selfish and doesn't respect your wishes. Good luck with it all ^^
Zeppie posted più di un anno fa
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Well maybe ha has had stuff happen to him in the past and is afraid....Did te ask him about his past relationships... Make sure te are being fair also, he could have had something happen in the past and he is just really emotional. That might be why he does the things he does :)
LovableXNerd posted più di un anno fa
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Hmmm...he did say his ex cheated O.o
liakarad1 posted più di un anno fa
EgoMouse said:
What I would do: Dump him, he reminds me too much of my psycho ex-girlfriend that was too clingy. Couldn't stand her. Would not data him even if he was good at sex o something. Though, he's kinda cute in a annoying, weird culo way.
My advice: I would find out if he had past relationships. He could of had a girlfriend(s) that cheated on him.
He's likely not ready for a relationship either way. Relationships without trust is a waste of time.
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posted più di un anno fa 
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thanks ^_^ and yes his ex (of 2 yrs) cheated
liakarad1 posted più di un anno fa
Book-Freak said:
I would call that controlling, not clingy! te need to be straight with him about the boundaries of your relationship - not only is he calling te a liar, but implying that he doesn't want te talking to other boys, which he has no right to do. He needs to know that he does not need to know who te talk to and cannot control who te hang out with. If he can't respect this, te should consider ending things with him.
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