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Okay, so I've been Friends with this guy for four years. He's been bullied pretty much all of his life, and I've always stuck da his side. Even when people made fun of me for hanging out with him, I didn't care. We've always had this deep connection, and we loved each other like brother and sister.

Recently, these girls have been harassing him. Telling him to kill himself and saying he did things in which he didn't. I helped him through this rough patch, and it was emotional for both of us.

About two days after this happened, he slowly stopped responding to my texts. And then, he stopped responding overall. I thought he was just busy, but it turned out he was texting everyone but me. My Friends would ask him about me, and when they did he just would ignore the domanda and/or not respond.

A giorno o two later, I was on the bus, and he sat with another kid. The kid asked him about me, and the guy looked straight at me and detto "we've never talked before." It honestly crushed me, and now I can't stand to hear his voice o see him around.

Why do te think he did this? We haven't talked ever since, and I don't feel like he wants to make it up at all I (niether do I, really). Any consigli from the fanpop community?
 rapunzelsgold_ posted più di un anno fa
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Riku114 said:
te should probably confront him yourself about it and make sure he is okay with his problems first. This might be a branch off from it, so dont throw him away and hate him so quickly. People who have problems, may it be genetic, psychological, o scars from trauma, tend to do things that might not be the wisest.

Though some reasons I could come up with is.....

1) Someone made te seem worthless than the damage te would cause for him
a: This may be because te gained a bad reputation and people hated him because of te and thats what they said
b: It was a bargain of sort
c: Someone detto a lie to him about te that made te seem less than what te should be
d: A threat was placed
e: te became 'bad for his reputation'

2) Its the drag on from something psychological/traumatizing
a: Maybe te remind him of something bad
b: Maybe te bring back bad memories of the past despite being the fonte of the good

3) Something te did bothered him o vice versa
a: Something uncomfortable. Maybe he ended up liking you, maybe he thought te ended up liking him.
b: Maybe te became too close
c: Maybe trust issues

4) He is trying to start anew
a: te are part of his past that must be dropped.
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posted più di un anno fa 
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Wish te the best of luck though
Riku114 posted più di un anno fa
Haonako said:
te need to pull through and if neither of te wants to make up then leave him like te dont need him tf
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posted più di un anno fa 
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Thats kind of harsh. Especially for a friend of 4 years that powered through so much
Riku114 posted più di un anno fa
pablopj said:
te say there people who been mean to him, there's a chance they lied to him about te so he would stay away from you, the best thing to do in a case like this is to talk with him, find a way to get to him and ask, if they lied something like te hate him, then he can be feeling bad, maybe even close to ending his life, if te want to know, te have to be the one to talk
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posted più di un anno fa 
Dreamtime said:
damn
probably someone detto bad things about te to him to make him avoid you
face him just tell him hear him out there must be a mistake here
hope things goes well for you
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posted più di un anno fa 
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