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Why do te think this is?

Alright, so te know when someone loses a loved one o has some other misfortune befall on them others will say "I will pray for you" o "they're in a better place"? Well I have seen some people actually get mad when people say these things. Now I get that those people don't believe in religion, of course, and that's fine, everyone should believe, and not believe, in whatever they want. What I don't get is why they get so angry over someone trying to comfort them in their own way. Why do te think that is?
 legend_of_roxas posted più di un anno fa
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Canada24 said:
Because people are assholes
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xD
Servamp posted più di un anno fa
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True and to the point.
EgoMouse posted più di un anno fa
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Thanks for saying so i didn't have to.
BlindBandit92 posted più di un anno fa
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Also this !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted più di un anno fa
EgoMouse said:
Because people tend to get offended da everything. They focus più on the words than the motives, especially if it conflicts with their beliefs.
I've gotten through that weird religion hating phase (but I guess hate is a strong word here, just generally not liking it).
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Servamp said:
-I guess some people feel this way because if te accept sympathy, then te must acknowledge that te have a loss. So if te want to be in denial, sympathy is the last thing te want to accept.
- Sympathy can feel like pity and nobody wants to be pitied.
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^ This !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted più di un anno fa
CokeTheUmbreon said:
Some people are assholes.
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Zeppie said:
Mainly because many people choose to be offended da almost anything.

But in their defense, the only reason why I'd imagine they'd get mad at that response is because they're not in a stable place of mind, they Lost someone they loved and some people get angry and hostile while they're grieving, others are più passive and quiet.

But if they do react that way, just leave it be and give them space. Grief can change people so wait for them to handle it in their time.
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