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What do I do?

I'm a freshman in high school and I've had a crush on this guy since September and since then we have become friendly with each other but not close friends, più like acquaintances. Anyway, I've found out recently that he kind of knows I like him. We haven't spoken since I became aware of this which was about three weeks fa and now I feel really awkward and self conscious around him. Before he knew I asked one of my Friends who is one of his close Friends to ask him if he liked me. She told me that he detto no. I don't want to give up on him that easily though because I feel like he just doesn't know me well enough to know whether he likes me o not because I'm shy and not very talkative and I think he's a really good guy and could learn to like me if he got to know me better. So now I'm scared to talk to him but at the same time I want to talk to him più and try to get him to like me. It would mean a lot to me if te could give me some good consigli on what to do in a situation like this. like how to not be so nervous around him and what kind of things to say to him. thanks!
 Musiquelover posted più di un anno fa
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xenriquegrl said:
I am exactly like you! I am also a very shy person but I'm gonna share with te the tricks and knacks I've learned on how to just get over it.

First of all, te know that he knows but the worst thing te can do is to just stop talking to him. te say te wanna talk to him, so, as much as te don't want to see this, just talk to him. Not about the fact that te like him but just about random stuff. Be yourself, get to know what he likes and see if te two have things in common.

The best way te can start da talking to him is to casually say hi at school and if he's in any of your classes just ask an how are you? And te don't have to say anymore than that. That way te seem open and friendly. If your too shy to say hi, try to smile. A casual smile. Guys go for girls who seem friendly no matter what te look like (although I bet your very beautiful duh). The fact is because your recitazione kinda cold, it sends a wrong vibe to him. te shouldn't be ashamed that he knows. It might actually be flattering to him ;)

te need confidence too. A great way to get started with that is da making sure te have great Friends who support te and make te laugh and feel good. Hold your chin up, even if he don't like te now, doesn't mean he won't in the futur. Ask your Friends to accompany te to ask him to chill with a group, great way to get to know someone! Your with your Friends so te feel confident, and it makes things less awkward. Just as long as te start da being Friends and don't get your hopes too too up cuz there are a lot of pesce in the sea and your still a freshman so girl, te got plenty of time!

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posted più di un anno fa 
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Thank te so much! te made my day. At first I was thinking if he ever asked me about it I would deny everything haha, but u have a good point in saying that he may actually be flattered so I will try what te said. Thanks a lot :)
Musiquelover posted più di un anno fa
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ciao your welcome ;) tell me how it went!!!
xenriquegrl posted più di un anno fa
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o how it goes sorry haha
xenriquegrl posted più di un anno fa
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