1) The Hard man act - guys will put on an act of being hard for 2 reasons: a) They are with mates and having some banter. If ther is banter, there is Hard man acting. b) They fancy you. Some guys will try to give the impression that they are strong, athletic etc. But this is only one way of a guy trying to impress you. If a guy does not do this, it doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you. (see 2)
2) Guys will be sensitive. A guy will be mature and caring around te if he fancies you. He wants to mostra he's not just thinking about sex, and is after a meaningful relationship. He wants to present himself as someone te can trust and depend on.
3) For a gender that spends a lot of its time boasting about penis sizes, when it comes to asking te out, it is rare that we have the balls. We like to have as much confirmation as we can that te like us back so we don't make fools of ourselves, o destroy a friendship. A mutual friend who gives consigli to both sides is very effective in speeding the process of building up the courage. If a very close friend of yours has dato him reason to believe te like him, he is a lot più likely to ask te out.
4) conversation tiptoes. A guy will become più confident and act più freely the mor he discovers about you. For instance, if he discovers te have a dirty mind, only then will he crack open the massive stores innuendos, dirty jokes and double entendres that have been accumulated over the years. If we discover that te like football, then that may become a common feature of conversation.
5) Guys will think about everything especially if what te say could be interpreted in più than one way. This is because girls torment guys everyday da making it so difficult to work out what you're really thinking and if you're interested. To an extent it's fun - there's no describing that feelnig when te think that a girl might like te but you're not entirely sure. Instant adrenalin high.
6) We avoid packs. Girls are terrifying enough without having to deal with a large group. If a guy has not had any major conversations with te for a while, it might not be that he isn't interested, he will just feel più comfortable if he's not surrounded da girls and "on his own" then a guy's confidence will evaporate in seconds. We're way più comfortable if we can have a conversation with te alone. We don't have to deal with every one of your Friends watching us and making judgements on us and worknig out we're into te and telling you. We will play it sicuro, cassetta di sicurezza if possible.
7) Look at what effort do we make to chat to you? Who's first to start a Facebook o text chat? Will he approach te when with your friends? Will he leave his group of Friends if he sees te walking da and talk to you? This shows he ranks your company above banter with friends, and means te are important to him.
8) Like girls do this, it is also a common tactic amongst guys. A guy who often texts te first may not start a conversation da text for a while, to see if te will. This gives him an idea of how well te value his conversation, o he may think te need some spazio o will be asleep. He won't want to seem too keen. If a guy te fancy doesn't text te for a while, text him.
9) Guys Amore compliments. Doesn't matter if its part of an insult e.g. "Nah if i was in charge, I suppose i would kep te around. I need SOMEONE who can make me laugh". This shows te value a guy and makes him feel he's doing a good job.
10) The Chase. If a guy loves you, he will chase te around the world. But te tread a fine line. Nobody's going to wait around forever. Remember to drop some hints, give him some things to think about while he's gonig after you, uif you're playing hard to get, o he may think you're not interested and let te walk away.
11) a guy will often look at te across a room o from a distance if he likes you. If te look at him, then don't take too much stock in if he turns away, maintains his stare, o tries to look as if he's daydreaming. Each guy is different. And while some will be confident enough to maintain the loook, some will try to disguise it.
12) Sometimes a guy will go out of his way to help te out. He wants to mostra he's kind. Look at if he does this to anybody else? If he does this to someone close to te that he knows reasonably well, he may be trying to get some inside info on you. If he does this only to you, then he's mostrare an interest.
13) Manpoints - not exclusive to guys. If te play COD, o like football, o horror films, then this will give te a lot of respect from the guy. We know that girls like this aren't common and although it isn't the be all and end all, it certainly helps.
14) Help us out. Sometimes we want te to make the first move. We might be too scared, o unsure if te like us, o just plain confused. Sometimes, (but not always) a guy erally wants te to clear things up, and help him to understand the situation. Doesn't have to be a massive spoiler, just give him a less subtle indicator every now and then.
15) Just like girls travel in groups and tell each other everything, guys often will give their close Friends regular updates, o even include their close friend (especially if that friend is taken) in your conversations as backup, another person they trust who can advise them, notice different things. Even if te start going out, if a guy is wise, he won't stop the updates. He will know that the chase isn't over, that te are still keeping him on his toes.
16) If a guy doesn't pick up on signals, o doesn't ask te out even if te think you've made your feelings obvious. Sometimes we're hopelessly oblivious, o just need things spelled out for us so that we can build up the courage to ask te out.
17) Confidant - A common idea among guys is that if te become a girl's confidant, te are as good as in there. A common method of attempting to reach this position is telling te the really deep stuff in their lives - their biggest secrets, things they dont talk about often. Do they mantion problems at home? The theory is that if they open up and mostra they trust you, then te are likely to do the same.
18) consigli on other girls. If this ever comes your way, then be alert. this will tell te for sure if the guy is into te o not. If he asks consigli on getting with an anonymous girl, te might be that girl. If he asks consigli on how to let down gently a girl he doesn't fancy, but is single then think. Why is he letting te know this? He trusts you. Is he keeping himself single for somebody? Is he making himself look desirable? Then there's a flipside. If he mentions a specific name, and wants consigli on getting together with her, then he's not into you.
19) Hypothetical domande are sometimes used because its not subtle but the guy feels easier if he uses it because it's not saying "I Amore te do te fancy me?" It's a way of telling te he likes te but it makes it easier to do so. Also, then it gives the impresion that if te say no, then things may not be so awkward.
20) We think about the girl we fancy roughly 22 hours a day. However it is not just "she looks hot, i want her in my bed". He will be thinking of hints you've dato him, imagining te two together, ways to ask te out, o just thinking about how much he likes te and reflecting on good times spent with you.
21) A guy may slip things you've told him into a conversation regularly. This demonstrates he's a good listener and thinks about what te say.
2) Guys will be sensitive. A guy will be mature and caring around te if he fancies you. He wants to mostra he's not just thinking about sex, and is after a meaningful relationship. He wants to present himself as someone te can trust and depend on.
3) For a gender that spends a lot of its time boasting about penis sizes, when it comes to asking te out, it is rare that we have the balls. We like to have as much confirmation as we can that te like us back so we don't make fools of ourselves, o destroy a friendship. A mutual friend who gives consigli to both sides is very effective in speeding the process of building up the courage. If a very close friend of yours has dato him reason to believe te like him, he is a lot più likely to ask te out.
4) conversation tiptoes. A guy will become più confident and act più freely the mor he discovers about you. For instance, if he discovers te have a dirty mind, only then will he crack open the massive stores innuendos, dirty jokes and double entendres that have been accumulated over the years. If we discover that te like football, then that may become a common feature of conversation.
5) Guys will think about everything especially if what te say could be interpreted in più than one way. This is because girls torment guys everyday da making it so difficult to work out what you're really thinking and if you're interested. To an extent it's fun - there's no describing that feelnig when te think that a girl might like te but you're not entirely sure. Instant adrenalin high.
6) We avoid packs. Girls are terrifying enough without having to deal with a large group. If a guy has not had any major conversations with te for a while, it might not be that he isn't interested, he will just feel più comfortable if he's not surrounded da girls and "on his own" then a guy's confidence will evaporate in seconds. We're way più comfortable if we can have a conversation with te alone. We don't have to deal with every one of your Friends watching us and making judgements on us and worknig out we're into te and telling you. We will play it sicuro, cassetta di sicurezza if possible.
7) Look at what effort do we make to chat to you? Who's first to start a Facebook o text chat? Will he approach te when with your friends? Will he leave his group of Friends if he sees te walking da and talk to you? This shows he ranks your company above banter with friends, and means te are important to him.
8) Like girls do this, it is also a common tactic amongst guys. A guy who often texts te first may not start a conversation da text for a while, to see if te will. This gives him an idea of how well te value his conversation, o he may think te need some spazio o will be asleep. He won't want to seem too keen. If a guy te fancy doesn't text te for a while, text him.
9) Guys Amore compliments. Doesn't matter if its part of an insult e.g. "Nah if i was in charge, I suppose i would kep te around. I need SOMEONE who can make me laugh". This shows te value a guy and makes him feel he's doing a good job.
10) The Chase. If a guy loves you, he will chase te around the world. But te tread a fine line. Nobody's going to wait around forever. Remember to drop some hints, give him some things to think about while he's gonig after you, uif you're playing hard to get, o he may think you're not interested and let te walk away.
11) a guy will often look at te across a room o from a distance if he likes you. If te look at him, then don't take too much stock in if he turns away, maintains his stare, o tries to look as if he's daydreaming. Each guy is different. And while some will be confident enough to maintain the loook, some will try to disguise it.
12) Sometimes a guy will go out of his way to help te out. He wants to mostra he's kind. Look at if he does this to anybody else? If he does this to someone close to te that he knows reasonably well, he may be trying to get some inside info on you. If he does this only to you, then he's mostrare an interest.
13) Manpoints - not exclusive to guys. If te play COD, o like football, o horror films, then this will give te a lot of respect from the guy. We know that girls like this aren't common and although it isn't the be all and end all, it certainly helps.
14) Help us out. Sometimes we want te to make the first move. We might be too scared, o unsure if te like us, o just plain confused. Sometimes, (but not always) a guy erally wants te to clear things up, and help him to understand the situation. Doesn't have to be a massive spoiler, just give him a less subtle indicator every now and then.
15) Just like girls travel in groups and tell each other everything, guys often will give their close Friends regular updates, o even include their close friend (especially if that friend is taken) in your conversations as backup, another person they trust who can advise them, notice different things. Even if te start going out, if a guy is wise, he won't stop the updates. He will know that the chase isn't over, that te are still keeping him on his toes.
16) If a guy doesn't pick up on signals, o doesn't ask te out even if te think you've made your feelings obvious. Sometimes we're hopelessly oblivious, o just need things spelled out for us so that we can build up the courage to ask te out.
17) Confidant - A common idea among guys is that if te become a girl's confidant, te are as good as in there. A common method of attempting to reach this position is telling te the really deep stuff in their lives - their biggest secrets, things they dont talk about often. Do they mantion problems at home? The theory is that if they open up and mostra they trust you, then te are likely to do the same.
18) consigli on other girls. If this ever comes your way, then be alert. this will tell te for sure if the guy is into te o not. If he asks consigli on getting with an anonymous girl, te might be that girl. If he asks consigli on how to let down gently a girl he doesn't fancy, but is single then think. Why is he letting te know this? He trusts you. Is he keeping himself single for somebody? Is he making himself look desirable? Then there's a flipside. If he mentions a specific name, and wants consigli on getting together with her, then he's not into you.
19) Hypothetical domande are sometimes used because its not subtle but the guy feels easier if he uses it because it's not saying "I Amore te do te fancy me?" It's a way of telling te he likes te but it makes it easier to do so. Also, then it gives the impresion that if te say no, then things may not be so awkward.
20) We think about the girl we fancy roughly 22 hours a day. However it is not just "she looks hot, i want her in my bed". He will be thinking of hints you've dato him, imagining te two together, ways to ask te out, o just thinking about how much he likes te and reflecting on good times spent with you.
21) A guy may slip things you've told him into a conversation regularly. This demonstrates he's a good listener and thinks about what te say.
